Thank You, Obstacles
Thank you, Right-Handers. You designed a world for the 90% on the globe who “go right”. In China? It spikes to 97.4% (1.3 billion people). Because of righties, I had to build up neural muscles to overcome smudgy handwriting, mediocre results with scissors and Coaches who didn’t know how to get the most out of […]
Be smALL In
Reading this post? Then it’s confirmed: You have big things to do. You do. Perhaps you haven’t figured out what flag you want to fly quite yet. Or maybe you know the exact metaphorical mountain you crave to climb but that first step seems so daunting, that you find yourself regularly looking up at that […]
Fighting For The 5%
I went to Television-Radio school. While I could tell you the differences between when to cut between “Camera 1” and “Camera 2”, naturally, I had less clarity on what happened in my body when it, unbeknownst to me, cut between my parasympathetic nervous system (“rest and digest”) and my sympathetic nervous system (“fight or flight”). […]
Be “Professional”
Are your parents like my parents? If so, then you know about the unspoken rules and etiquette of how my generation was taught to navigate business. It goes a little something like this: Get in somewhere. Put your head down. Bite your lip (a lot). Grind it out for 40 years. Get a watch. Retire. […]
We Created Problems
Flashback with me to earlier this month in Michigan. My team and I went out of our way to create problems. In fact, my partners and I created a — not behind a closed door — but a public forum for 140+ leaders to come together to scoff and serve up their companies largest problems […]
You Are What You Ist
Do tell. What is your Ist? When you review the “IST List”, you start to recognize that some “ISTs” are more hobby than job: Artist. Adventurist. Bicyclist. Pianist. Mixologist. Tourist. Hobbyist. Spiritualist. Some “Ists” are more job than hobby: Anthropologist. Dental Hygienist. Botanist. Journalist. Environmentalist. Economist. Scientist. Some “Ists” can be extreme and take years […]
Fear of Rejection
You weren’t looking for a new job when the recruiter reached out. But here they are. Showing up with that seemingly perfect brand and title to match that would look so good on paper. So into the interview process you go… First round. Second round. Final round. Then? The call you had been waiting for…. […]
“Work-Life” vs “Life’s Work”
When it comes to my job, I don’t see what I do as an endeavor in “work-life”. Rather, I see this journey to my current, winding adventure as “life’s work”. That wasn’t always the case. Like all of us, I wanted to make my mark. I wanted to be seen for my talents. I was […]
WIP or RIP
It has been 30 years since one of the greatest movies of my lifetime first rolled into a movie theatre near me. Not that I lost myself in this masterpiece in a real, live actual cinema. Almost no one witnessed this prison drama enveloped in surround sound on the large screen. For one, competition in 1994 […]
Rebirthday
I turned 48 this week. I rung in my birthday watching both my kids perform in a musical performance called, “Team Zombie”. As I sat there, watching both of my ghouls fully be themselves, I couldn’t help but smile. Here they are, fully immersed in doing what currently lights them up: Birthdays are often a time […]